From what I understand, they charge you once they "harvest" the order from CCNow and begin working on the batch that your order falls in. They're only working on orders around 10/13 now, and there are a LOT of orders from that day and the next couple due to the Yules going up I'm sure.
If there's a problem, they'll contact you... it's probably just that they're not up to your order yet.
Yeah, I had a feeling it was something like that, but I wasn't sure exactly how it all worked, so I appreciate the clarification. I tend to overworry I think. I just didn't want to disappoint my sister since this order includes her first order from BPAL