He thinks it's selfish of me not to consider how they have nowhere to go (they can't go to her place because her ex-fiance that she dumped for Jason lives there) & can't relax & watch movies together.

*sputters* WTF?!? They want to be considerate to her ex but you somehow don't qualify?

You're being the big person there (or as valentina would say, you put on your "big girl panties") so I'll be mad for you. They're the ones being incredibly selfish.

*sputters* WTF?!? They want to be considerate to her ex but you somehow don't qualify?

 

You're being the big person there (or as valentina would say, you put on your "big girl panties") so I'll be mad for you. They're the ones being incredibly selfish.

I get the impression she doesn't care about her ex's feelings at all (from some sad messages he sent me), but that she doesn't have a tv in her room. They're both terrible people and I wish the idea of karma provided some solace ...

In my humble opinion, you're not the one who should be looking for somewhere else to stay, he is. That business about not being able to go to her place because her ex is there is garbage! What are you?? Her ex's feelings are more important than yours? Not hardly.

He could not be treating you any shittier. And honestly I can't believe that this new woman is even willing to come into your house and act like that. She sounds like a real piece of work too. Good grief.

In my humble opinion, you're not the one who should be looking for somewhere else to stay, he is. That business about not being able to go to her place because her ex is there is garbage! What are you?? Her ex's feelings are more important than yours? Not hardly.

 

He could not be treating you any shittier. And honestly I can't believe that this new woman is even willing to come into your house and act like that. She sounds like a real piece of work too. Good grief.

I can't imagine why she wants to come there either. My stuff is still scattered all around in there because I haven't had anywhere to put it. I think I'll box it up this week or next when they're not around & stuff it somewhere, just so I can make some visible progress. I can't control what he does & he seems unwilling to listen ... All I can really control is my own actions.

I don't know. This is all confusing & I can only think one day ahead at a time, and for right now, that day involves sleeping on a couch at my wonderful friend's apartment.